Why would you hate your EX? - Pema Khandu

 Why would you hate your EX? 

Everyone knows because everyone says, life is a journey and we or our soul is a traveler. As we travel, it's our privilege and honor to come across different people like that of our same age or older, dumb or smart, or who pretends like they are better just like ourselves. And once in a while, from hundreds and thousands of soul we come across, our heart tends to leap a beat over certain people or a thing. Then, there is happiness everywhere. 

We are the happiest creature on this whole universe but as we keep on travelling our journey with new accompanying soul, just after walking for long or over a short, we starts getting tired. Suddenly, all sparks and joy starts fading. We feel our happiness wane and we are helpless. Either they choose someone else over us or we  decides to change our travelling companion. And that is the beginning of real, new and different journey. In fear of judgement, we start telling people that we are imperfect but then we judge some people like they are born perfect. In our journey, we shared each other a lot of stories and now as we have drifted apart, story of joy in past becomes a point to judge, criticize and create rumors. 

We think that other soul was just a trash and we never mention how we enjoyed licking those trash back then. Blame game starts and never comes to an end even when our journey together has already ended back then. We torture our travelling soul. So, why would we do that? Why would we hate them?  Why would we torture ourselves? So simple. Because both of us, this two traveler needs to be viewed upon right to get a company of a new traveler. This is one from many. Right? We fear each other. Moreover, we fear other travelers mouth, but then let us please remind ourselves! Not all people get divorce or break up. 

Some people reaches ultimate destination of our journey early and leaves one behind. And one day or another we will reach there too but then we wont go holding each others hand. We either leave first or they rushes in first. When they does that what could we do? Do we still hate them or create rumors and try to be right? We would say thats a two different story. Lets think, is that really different? If they dies, journey ends and even if they leave for others our journey of together ends there. We tend to forget that insecurity of one and other, makes us hate. All of us feel insecure, we know that yet we fear from each other. Certainly, whether they be with you or other their journey will eventually reach ultimate destination and we are also headed there.

In course of time, we always get to see who was right or wrong because at some point we always end up showing truth or giving up truth. We are human after all. And as our journey continues we will get to know that. So, relax. In the name of hating our EX, lets not torture our own soul. Free them, and choose to free ourselves too. They are expired from our life. Let them experience the new journey and aren't we excited to taste that too?!!

~pk leo [The scrawled thought of commoner]